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ETIQUETTE
CONSENT
I operate within the bounds of RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and that the foundation of BDSM is mutual consent and respect.
Consent is a two-way street and requires direct communication from the Dominant and submissive. If you do not feel confident in your ability to advocate for yourself, you need to communicate that during O/our initial discussions. Your safety is of the utmost importance to Me. For U/us to play safely, W/we both need to feel confident that the O/other will advocate for T/themself.
At the beginning of O/our session, I will offer you two safewords (one to let Me know you are approaching a limit, another to trigger Me to safely stop whatever W/we are doing and check in with you). It is not "bad" to use these words - In fact, I highly encourage you to use them throughout O/our session. This is your easiest way to communicate your needs to Me quickly, even in a high protocol scene.
CONTACTING
There will always be risks when participating in kink and BDSM. Do your part to educate yourself on the physical risks of your interests and take into consideration your mental and emotional state. I am more than happy to work with people with limited physical ability as well as those with trauma. W/we will discuss any potential risk prior to O/our session. If I do not touch on something you would like to discuss, do not hesitate to ask questions or inform Me.
Regardless of if you are a regular or reaching out to a Dominatrix for the first time, I will very clearly lay out what is expected of you.
To book, you will be required to fill out My submission application. Upon hitting "submit", you will be redirected to My pre-negotiation. Once I have received your application and pre-negotiation, I will respond within 24 hours. I will ask you for the preferred screening method that you chose, your deposit through CashApp or Throne, and set a tentative session date. Once I have received the aforementioned information, I will reserve your booking and send your first confirmation email. You will receive a final confirmation email 48 - 24 hours prior to the session. Your response is mandatory to all confirmations.
If you have any questions, you may send them to DominaDollyStCyr@protonmail.com after submitting your submission application. I am more than happy to accommodate questions regarding your booking. If the email exchange exceeds three outgoing emails (without reason being on My part) I will ask for tribute as consideration for My time.
You will address Me as Domina Dolly or Saint Cyr and nothing else. Introduce yourself when contacting Me for the first time and uphold the same level of professionalism you would contacting your workplace Superior. There will be plenty of time to loosen your tie later. Approach with respect to achieve your desired outcome.
FIRST-TIMERS
Don't be shy. I won't bite... yet.
If you have seen three or less providers, and especially if this is your very first time, do let Me know in your application. It can be intimidating reaching out for the first time - perhaps even facing your truest desires for the first time - so allow Me to ease the process.
Approach respectfully and with a willingness to experience something new. You may find that some things suit you better as a fantasy and that something you thought you had no interest in really lights your fire. Be open to the experience.
GROOMING
I have high standards for those in My presence.
Arrive to O/our session freshly showered and with fresh breath. You may shower at the beginning or end of O/our session as well (though keep in mind that this will be a part of your booked time). Mouthwash will be provided.
If W/we are doing anal play in O/our scene, arrive having cleaned out within a few hours. Bodies are bodies and messes happen, however, O/our session will be halted if there is a biohazard risk. If you have questions regarding cleaning beforehand, you may email Me after submitting your application and pre-negotiation.
ADDITIONALLY
I am happy to oblige respectful requests if they pique My interest.
If there is an activity or fetish that you are interested in exploring with Me that you do not see on My offered pleasures or hard limits, do not hesitate to email Me your inquiry.
If you are asking for an activity that I do not partake in, I am happy to refer you to one of My lovely Dominant friends.
If you are looking for double or triple the torment, I do offer sessions with other Dominatrices. Do include your request in your submission application.
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